Wednesday, October 16, 2013

et·i·quette

Etiquette is defined as the customary code of polite behaviour in society or among members of a certain profession or group.

Anyone that lives in Toronto or who has visited Toronto has likely had the privilege of a TTC experience. There are times when it is a totally enjoyable experience. But that's rare. In the day-to-day rush hour commute, the level of etiquette, manners and just general care for anyone else is lacking. So in case you're new (which is okay, just make notes...), here are some guidelines for how NOT to be a total arse while riding the TTC.

  1. If you're wearing a backpack or carrying a massive purse or bag, put it on the ground between your feet or on your lap if you're sitting. This will prevent creating extra congestion and being bumped every time someone needs past you.
  2. Your bag or belongings did NOT pay for the seat beside you. 
  3. Stand up if you're sitting in the outside seat and someone wants out. The pivot-method is FAR from convenient and polite.
    1. Once the inside seat is vacant, it's appreciated if you move to the inside. It's not overly welcoming to have to ask to sit down and disturb you.
  4. We all appreciate people that wear deodorant, but don't bathe in your perfume/cologne before you go out in the morning. This is a general life rule. It gives people headaches.
  5. People who are elderly, pregnant, injured or with young children SHOULD be at least offered a seat. Be that person that gives up their seat; it's good karma.
 Point of this post is...be kind and considerate. It's not all about you.

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

met·a·mor·pho·sis

A metamorphosis is defined as a change of the form or nature of a thing or person into a completely different one, by natural or supernatural means.  For arguments sake, let's focus on the aspect of a person changing into a completely different thing.

Time passes, babies grow, flowers die and we keep moving. Change is inevitable, so what other choice do we have, but to just keep moving? And some days that is incredibly challenging. But on those days, celebrate that you got out of bed, or even that you decided to open your eyes. Because here's the thing; life is a choice. All extenuating circumstances and unpredictable factors aside, you choose to live. You also get to choose what kind of life you live. And that brings me to today's inner-musing...

I feel I've been in a constant state of change for the past year or so. Even more than that really...but I've really noticed it lately. I want to do things. I want to get dirty, breathe new air and wake up energized. So here we go again...

I promise myself that over the course of the next year I will do the following: travel, create, love, forgive, screw up, grow and better myself. I will take chances and accept opportunities and I will roll with the punches. I will say yes to more things that benefit me and no to more things that cause stress.

Stay tuned for more posts about experiences, feelings and the occasional post that shares a cause or event that I deem noteworthy.

Love always!
Courtney